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I held off on sex for as long as I could, but it got more and more difficult.One day, my new beau reassured me, "I'm disease-free, I just got tested.I had barely finished my first semester of college when I found out I had herpes.A high school friend and I wound up taking our friendship a little further, and 20 seconds into the act that would change my life forever, he stopped.I was still uncomfortable about bringing up the subject, but now I didn't have much of a choice.
A friend of mine had recently married a guy she met on the Web -- proving that not every Internet date is a psycho -- so I gave it a try.I met dozens of electronic pen pals and eventually went on several dates.It was a relief not to worry about when to bring up my medical history, and to bond with a guy over asymptomatic shedding instead of having to explain it.The whole experience made me more comfortable with the fact that I have herpes and gave me the confidence to begin dating again.It was as if I had just re-entered mainstream society.
You have nothing to worry about." I appreciated his honesty and knew I had to tell him that he was the one who had something to worry about. I explained that I had herpes, and that was why I was being so cautious.