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The apps make people so disposable and prevents anyone from taking the time to sit and get to know someone before going back to constant window shopping.
the depth comes in real quick & attractiveness means fuckall after, since weve established both parties are physicslly attracted to one while the shallow bit of online dating (online introductions) is shallow, it is only a very powerful past this threshold (arguably... I don’t really think much has changed, but rather the internet has created a format in which everyone is a potential match.
It’s never a “oh I swiped on someone better, I should ghost this other guy” situation, because you have to maintain multiple things because they’ll fade away anyway.
A good 75% of the guys I do talk to come through with this “I just got out of a serious relationship so I’m not looking for anything serious...” story that is just so frustrating at this point.
Whether he spends his whole paycheck on Saville Row suits or wears the same old cargo shorts every weekend, it doesn't matter.
I tried multiple dating sites/apps: Tinder, Bumble, Match etc.
it's not easy getting past this sleeve) then the hard bit is there. & finding that answer is wicked difficult.unless youre only there to smang. When the match doesn’t go as according to plan, there’s lots of potential to get emotionally hurt. I think the vast majority of long term relationships are still formed initially in-person.